even out of the bar, on off hours, and we had to confront her about it," Zach Mack, owner of ABC Beer Co. "There was one time, a girl would not leave one of our male servers alone. “It’s standoffish, and she's literally covering her chest: saying 'don’t look at my chest, don’t think about my chest. "If a woman folds her arms when she's talking to you, it's a clear-cut sign that she is not into you," Dr. on what planet could this dude possibly think that line would work?" Amy said. "One time a guy stopped me on my way to the kitchen, and asked me, 'Do you like to cook?' I said, ‘Sure.’ and then he asked me if I like to clean, and I just kind of nodded, but then he asked me, 'Do you like to fuck?' I’m just like, where. "And I had no problem telling him, 'Yeah, I would never imagine that, if I did I would probably throw up.'" "A few nights ago a guy at the bar told me, 'If you let me take you out to my car, I could do things you wouldn’t even imagine," said Bri. Here is what you definitely should NOT do "That means we want to stay in touch, we would be willing to interact outside the bar," Amy said.
plans, or what I like to do or something," said Amy.Īny inquiries that may lead to you divulging personal information about yourself ( five points)Īmy continues: "Then if he’s really not getting the hint, I’ll just start sending out feelers, asking him about his situation, casually getting to the bottom of his relationship status."Ī number, a friend request, or an Instagram follow - they're like "breaking the seal” of the bartender-customer stand-off. So first, I'd probably tell him something about myself. "You are never sure what a guy’s deal is, and sometimes it’s hard to tell by the people he’s with. it’s so you know they are single,” radio host and psychologist Dr. If you hear any guy talk about his ex in a wistful way. "Guys will play the lonely hearts club - ‘Oh, my ex-girlfriend and I used to go there.’ - he’s showcasing his mate status. A lot of drinks."ĭivulging personal info about themselves ( four points) "And then I’d start giving him drinks for free. like noticing he needs a drink,” said Bri S., my old college chum, and Hooters alum. "I’d pay extra attention to the dude, even when I'm swamped. Not making you pay for drinks ( three points) He's going to buy you drinks, and he’s going to start spending all his time around your corner - it’s going to be obvious, unless he’s trying to hide it from his boss," said Fulton. "Look, guys don’t really ‘flirt’ with customers the way girls do, when a guy is coming on to you, you're going to know it. As so many think I'm flirting with them, when I’m really not." But it doesn't always seem that easy for guys. "I think if I’m flirting with you, you should probably know it. "Most bartenders - by their nature, are just extroverts," Amy said. an unusual amount of it, especially if the bar is busy ( two points) which might be a stretch," said my brother Tripp Fulton, who was a bartender for five years in Baltimore, Maryland at a smatter of fine (and not-so-fine) establishments.Īttention. "One of my co-workers has this move, he used to leave the bar and brush past a girl he was trying to pick up, and put his hand on her shoulder when he walked around her. I call it the P.A.N.D.A.S™ Point System, and you need a combined score of at least 10 before you can be sure your 'tender is for real. There are six things you need to look out forĪll the bartenders I talked to agreed on these six flirting facts.
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